We know that the arrival of a baby is an event that revolutionizes all the family and friends around him. It is love multiplied! And it is normal that you want to be part of that moment. But it is very important to be respectful when going to meet a newborn in his home, so that your visit is a reason for joy and company, and not stress and overwhelm.
The first thing is to understand that this family is living one of the most magical and challenging stages of their life, and visits can be overwhelming.
And be careful! If that family has decided not to receive visitors yet, respect their decision and don't take it personally.
1. Coordinate your visit in advance
Never be surprised to meet a newborn. Those first few weeks are very intense for the family and the last thing they need is unexpected visitors.
Always write or call ahead and arrange a time that is most convenient for the mother and her baby. Don't bring unexpected guests, always ask ahead.
2. Be punctual and don't stay too long
Arrive on time and let them know by phone that you have arrived, because the doorbell or intercom could wake the baby.
Don't overstay your visit, limit it to 30 minutes or 1 hour , unless the parents ask you to stay.
Important: If they cancel at the last minute, be understanding, life with a newborn is full of unexpected events.
3. Basic hygiene rules
Wash your hands thoroughly as soon as you arrive. Always ask before picking up the baby and if the parents seem uncomfortable, don't insist. Also, avoid kissing the baby.
Another very important thing is that if you think you are sick or have a cold, postpone your visit immediately. Babies' immune systems are still weak, so be very aware and cautious.
4. Make yourself useful
Don't expect to be waited on during your visit, instead, find a way to be helpful! Maybe you can offer to do some chores around the house like washing dishes, or holding the baby so mom can take a shower or just to rest her arms.
5. Respect and empathy
If you are a mother, you will surely have your ways of doing things, but do not impose them on this new mother, she is going through her own learning process. Respect her decisions , give your opinion only when asked or if you have the confidence to welcome it, and above all do not judge or criticize.
6. What to bring?
Generally, everyone is concerned about showering the baby with gifts, but a nice gesture is also to bring something to that mother who is going through one of the most exhausting stages of her life.
Another good idea is to bring something to eat during your visit (for example, if you're meeting up for lunch or coffee). You can also add something extra to leave for the parents at home.
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7. Be careful with social media
Always ask before taking a photo of your baby , and even if it's tempting, don't share it on social media without the parents' approval.
